I have a very good girl friend, she is pretty and she is very good in sex as well. She is willing to do whatever it please me, even for those things that you can watch in porn, she have no problem doing that. Then everything should work out fine right? For me it isn't, I didn't ask if she have the same feeling. But I have that kind of feeling that she just lazy to think and work something out for us, she don't want to break up with me, she just lazy to put some effort. I'm so close to have an affair out there, but I asked myself do I really want to do so? Is there anything that I can do about it?
You see, we can't blame this on our partner even you feel that it's a boring sex, have you try something new, have you ever even try to communicate this with her or him? You want to spice up your sex life or even relationship, you have to do something about it. Well, it's common that we will take for granted after a long relationship. We become lazy, so lazy that even a phone call to make them feel better, we assume everything will turn out to be right but no, relationship doesn't work like this.
