A Basic Guide to Oral Sex

Oral sex was once considered to be a taboo but today this type of sex is practiced among people around the globe. Our attitude toward oral sex can tell a lot about our attitude on sex in general. A person that likes to get and give oral sex is usually caring, sensual and spontaneous in the bed. On the other hand, a person who feels tension and discomfort even when someone mentions oral sex is reserved when it comes to sex in general.

What should women know about oral sex?

There are many women who find oral sex unpleasant and complicated but the truth is that oral sex is really easy to perform. There are many tips and advice that can help women provide oral sex that will make their partners satisfied and make this experience less unpleasant for them.

The first rule is to maintain good lubrication. The more saliva the more your partner will enjoy. Try to hold some saliva in your mouth before you place the penis in your mouth. Finding a good position is another important moment. You have probably noticed that you can experience more pleasure in certain sex positions when your partner is providing sexual pleasure well the same goes when you are doing that to him. You can lie down on the bed or kneel over him but feel free to explore some new positions too. The key to perfect oral sex is to have both hands available because in this way you can control the depth of penetration. You can also try the well known position – kneeling in front of him. Some women find this position degrading but there is nothing wrong with providing pleasure to your partner.

In order to have a good start with the act you should begin with the top of the penis because this is the part that is most sensitive. Don’t forget to use the hands because they can maximize the effects.

What should men know about oral sex?

Many men believe that there is no need to learn something about oral sex because it looks easy. This is simply not true. Female physiology is much different from male physiology and you should know few things before you start with this act. Many men for example, rush in the genital area but what women actually need is a short foreplay in a form of kissing and touching the area around the vagina in order to increase the excitement. Although there is usually one position to perform oral sex you can always try something new because many women find oral sex more exciting when they are on their stomach. If you are not sure if you are doing this in the right way you can always ask your partner. Of course, the best time to do that is after the sex act.

There is no doubt that oral sex can improve your sex life because this type of sex usually continues with what we call “classic” sexual intercourse.

Oral sex

My girlfriend likes to do this oral sex to me, I like it a lot. Some of you can see it in porn that call it a blow job. I'm not sure there is any guys out there that don't enjoy oral sex. As for me, I totally enjoy the stimulation without moving at all. She have really good oral sex technique that makes her look like a pro in those porn movie. Sometimes I sit on a chair or lie on the bed, but the best position for blow job is stand, for me.

Well, in return I give her oral sex as well. It's not only for return a favour but girls do like oral sex a lot, and sometimes they feel that it's better than the real sex when you penetrate inside her. That's why you can see those lesbian can satisfy themselves without a real penis. I read an article that mentions that if your eyelids are not sticky after you give her an oral sex that means you are not doing your best to please her. I can imagine those porn movie that the guy is like dive into her vagina and give her the lick. The article even suggest that we should shake our face side by side that may give a very good friction to her vagina. Actually it will get kinda messy as my girlfriend is very wet down there. I haven't get myself that wet before, I may try it someday. Maybe I can save some money for facial since I will have a natural facial here.

She is all wet

I look for my girl friend about twice a week. Every time we meet sure I don't miss the chance to make love to her. I think it's quite normal that guys sexual need twice a week, most of the guys at least twice or triple per week. There was a day I feel so horny in the morning while working, so I just text her to tell her how much I miss her and I also wrote something like I hope to undress her now and lick her nipple and all over her body, she likes me to kiss her neck and back, that's her favourite spot that make her wet. The whole day I text her few time and my penis do feel hard as well. I think she was kinda excited to receive the message and felt horny too. I remember I read this in some article that this kind of message or call before meet up can help to make her horny and turn her on, it can be a kind of foreplay.

By the time I reach her place after work, she was already in my favourite lingerie. We started everything with a kiss, I didn't do much foreplay and reach my hand to her vagina. I was about to make her wet so that we can started to make love, and I was so surprise that just a few kisses she was already wet. She did have her orgasm again, and she told me she was so turn on while she receive my text. She felt excited to receive message like this during work, it was like I was there to undress her already. Just to share this with you and you may try it, it does work.