Oral sex was once considered to be a taboo but today this
type of sex is practiced among people around the globe. Our attitude toward
oral sex can tell a lot about our attitude on sex in general. A person that
likes to get and give oral sex is usually caring, sensual and spontaneous in
the bed. On the other hand, a person who feels tension and discomfort even when
someone mentions oral sex is reserved when it comes to sex in general.
What should women know about oral sex?
There are many women who find oral sex unpleasant and
complicated but the truth is that oral sex is really easy to perform. There are
many tips and advice that can help women provide oral sex that will make their
partners satisfied and make this experience less unpleasant for them.
The first rule is to maintain good lubrication. The more
saliva the more your partner will enjoy. Try to hold some saliva in your mouth
before you place the penis in your mouth. Finding a good position is another
important moment. You have probably noticed that you can experience more
pleasure in certain sex positions when your partner is providing sexual pleasure well
the same goes when you are doing that to him. You can lie down on the bed or
kneel over him but feel free to explore some new positions too. The key to
perfect oral sex is to have both hands available because in this way you can
control the depth of penetration. You can also try the well known position –
kneeling in front of him. Some women find this position degrading but there is
nothing wrong with providing pleasure to your partner.
In order to have a good start with the act you should begin
with the top of the penis because this is the part that is most sensitive.
Don’t forget to use the hands because they can maximize the effects.
What should men know about oral sex?
Many men believe that there is no need to learn something
about oral sex because it looks easy. This is simply not true. Female
physiology is much different from male physiology and you should know few
things before you start with this act. Many men for example, rush in the
genital area but what women actually need is a short foreplay in a form of
kissing and touching the area around the vagina in order to increase the
excitement. Although there is usually one position to perform oral sex you can
always try something new because many women find oral sex more exciting when
they are on their stomach. If you are not sure if you are doing this in the
right way you can always ask your partner. Of course, the best time to do that
is after the sex act.
There is no doubt that oral sex can improve your sex life
because this type of sex usually continues with what we call “classic” sexual
intercourse.
