A Basic Guide to Oral Sex

Oral sex was once considered to be a taboo but today this type of sex is practiced among people around the globe. Our attitude toward oral sex can tell a lot about our attitude on sex in general. A person that likes to get and give oral sex is usually caring, sensual and spontaneous in the bed. On the other hand, a person who feels tension and discomfort even when someone mentions oral sex is reserved when it comes to sex in general.

What should women know about oral sex?

There are many women who find oral sex unpleasant and complicated but the truth is that oral sex is really easy to perform. There are many tips and advice that can help women provide oral sex that will make their partners satisfied and make this experience less unpleasant for them.

The first rule is to maintain good lubrication. The more saliva the more your partner will enjoy. Try to hold some saliva in your mouth before you place the penis in your mouth. Finding a good position is another important moment. You have probably noticed that you can experience more pleasure in certain sex positions when your partner is providing sexual pleasure well the same goes when you are doing that to him. You can lie down on the bed or kneel over him but feel free to explore some new positions too. The key to perfect oral sex is to have both hands available because in this way you can control the depth of penetration. You can also try the well known position – kneeling in front of him. Some women find this position degrading but there is nothing wrong with providing pleasure to your partner.

In order to have a good start with the act you should begin with the top of the penis because this is the part that is most sensitive. Don’t forget to use the hands because they can maximize the effects.

What should men know about oral sex?

Many men believe that there is no need to learn something about oral sex because it looks easy. This is simply not true. Female physiology is much different from male physiology and you should know few things before you start with this act. Many men for example, rush in the genital area but what women actually need is a short foreplay in a form of kissing and touching the area around the vagina in order to increase the excitement. Although there is usually one position to perform oral sex you can always try something new because many women find oral sex more exciting when they are on their stomach. If you are not sure if you are doing this in the right way you can always ask your partner. Of course, the best time to do that is after the sex act.

There is no doubt that oral sex can improve your sex life because this type of sex usually continues with what we call “classic” sexual intercourse.

Soft erection problem

It was a wonderful afternoon, having my coffee at my favourite cafe as usual. I seldom take alcohol lately, I like to dance, I like the pretty sexy girls in the dance pool, I enjoy looking at those sexy bodies moving but felt like I'm too old for that. I shared this thought with you at my last post. I change favourite drink from coffee to beer, and sexy girls in the dance pool to classic ladies in the cafe. I'm so attracted to classic ladies now.

My lifestyle changed, my favourite drink changed, my taste of girls changed, and so as my body condition changed. I can still enjoy my sex life but I can't have a long lasting erection and maintain hard erection during sex like I used to be. I shared this thought with my friend and they had the same problem too. Few of my friends have their foot ligament operated as they tore it during basketball game. We did enjoy mocking each other about how old we became and we have to change ourselves to adapt with it.

Lately I found that I can't have hard erection during the whole process of having sex with my girlfriend, maybe sex doesn't stimulate so much as I was so used to it or my body is getting a bit old. As I mentioned previously I need to workout so hard to keep my body in shape, our body metabolism tends to go slow when we are aging; we need to build more muscles to keep the metabolism. I share my experience with my friend and he had the same problem, he took some sexual enhancement pill, Activ Homme. It's something like Viagra but main function is to help maintain hard erection. It's a weird experience as I took it a bit late and have sex after half an hour, the effect is not so strong yet. I had a very hard erection after I ejaculate. Too bad my girl friend went home else I will come with another one.

Never expect myself to do this, I mean taking pills for better sex. I don't need to take it every time I have sex but it can help me when I am too tired or stress out after work. I rather have it with me as a backup just to avoid some embarrass moment which I had it before with my current girl friend. I can't have a hard erection during sex, and it was during tax period, I was stress out with work. She was at her mid 20s and I can't disappoint her all the time.