I once read that getting into a relationship can be very easy, because of sex. Well sex does make things easier sometime. This don't happen with me much, I prefer no attach sex. I need it from time to time but sometimes the sex is good with the girl doesn't mean she is good for a girlfriend. I rather choose to have a girlfriend that is loyal and able to have a steady and solid relationship. If you are in a serious relationship, the girlfriend can make very big differences with your life. If you have a pretty, sexy, good in sex but crazy girlfriend, then you can expect a better sex life but a crazy life as well. That means you won't be able to focus with your career and the crazy girlfriend may give you a big mess in your life, why so much headache? If the girl is crazy but good in sex, then make her your friend with benefit, what we call a casual relationship. Life with a bit of crazy is enough, too much crazy then I'm sure you will be crazy someday.
Better sex life sure is a big benefit in life, it can make life so much better. Actually what we want in life is very simple, and things are getting so much complicated lately and it's going to be more complicated in the future. Make things simple and get yourself a less demanding partner and you will have less headache, unless you have the luck to get a wife that is considerate, understanding and love you a lot. The seduction out there is pretty big, love is not so easy to maintain, the challenge is very big. Are you able to loyal your partner and make sure there are nothing wrong with it? You have to try your best.
Find a good partner and if his or her sex skill is not good enough for you just communicate more and learn with them, the most important thing is a suitable person that can be with you to make your life better not worst.
There are no wonder why so many of them prefer to be single rather than in a bad relationship, really have no idea how many of them are still confident and believe in marriage in the future. Like Pink's song you gotta get up and try and try.