A Basic Guide to Oral Sex

Oral sex was once considered to be a taboo but today this type of sex is practiced among people around the globe. Our attitude toward oral sex can tell a lot about our attitude on sex in general. A person that likes to get and give oral sex is usually caring, sensual and spontaneous in the bed. On the other hand, a person who feels tension and discomfort even when someone mentions oral sex is reserved when it comes to sex in general.

What should women know about oral sex?

There are many women who find oral sex unpleasant and complicated but the truth is that oral sex is really easy to perform. There are many tips and advice that can help women provide oral sex that will make their partners satisfied and make this experience less unpleasant for them.

The first rule is to maintain good lubrication. The more saliva the more your partner will enjoy. Try to hold some saliva in your mouth before you place the penis in your mouth. Finding a good position is another important moment. You have probably noticed that you can experience more pleasure in certain sex positions when your partner is providing sexual pleasure well the same goes when you are doing that to him. You can lie down on the bed or kneel over him but feel free to explore some new positions too. The key to perfect oral sex is to have both hands available because in this way you can control the depth of penetration. You can also try the well known position – kneeling in front of him. Some women find this position degrading but there is nothing wrong with providing pleasure to your partner.

In order to have a good start with the act you should begin with the top of the penis because this is the part that is most sensitive. Don’t forget to use the hands because they can maximize the effects.

What should men know about oral sex?

Many men believe that there is no need to learn something about oral sex because it looks easy. This is simply not true. Female physiology is much different from male physiology and you should know few things before you start with this act. Many men for example, rush in the genital area but what women actually need is a short foreplay in a form of kissing and touching the area around the vagina in order to increase the excitement. Although there is usually one position to perform oral sex you can always try something new because many women find oral sex more exciting when they are on their stomach. If you are not sure if you are doing this in the right way you can always ask your partner. Of course, the best time to do that is after the sex act.

There is no doubt that oral sex can improve your sex life because this type of sex usually continues with what we call “classic” sexual intercourse.

Soft erection problem

It was a wonderful afternoon, having my coffee at my favourite cafe as usual. I seldom take alcohol lately, I like to dance, I like the pretty sexy girls in the dance pool, I enjoy looking at those sexy bodies moving but felt like I'm too old for that. I shared this thought with you at my last post. I change favourite drink from coffee to beer, and sexy girls in the dance pool to classic ladies in the cafe. I'm so attracted to classic ladies now.

My lifestyle changed, my favourite drink changed, my taste of girls changed, and so as my body condition changed. I can still enjoy my sex life but I can't have a long lasting erection and maintain hard erection during sex like I used to be. I shared this thought with my friend and they had the same problem too. Few of my friends have their foot ligament operated as they tore it during basketball game. We did enjoy mocking each other about how old we became and we have to change ourselves to adapt with it.

Lately I found that I can't have hard erection during the whole process of having sex with my girlfriend, maybe sex doesn't stimulate so much as I was so used to it or my body is getting a bit old. As I mentioned previously I need to workout so hard to keep my body in shape, our body metabolism tends to go slow when we are aging; we need to build more muscles to keep the metabolism. I share my experience with my friend and he had the same problem, he took some sexual enhancement pill, Activ Homme. It's something like Viagra but main function is to help maintain hard erection. It's a weird experience as I took it a bit late and have sex after half an hour, the effect is not so strong yet. I had a very hard erection after I ejaculate. Too bad my girl friend went home else I will come with another one.

Never expect myself to do this, I mean taking pills for better sex. I don't need to take it every time I have sex but it can help me when I am too tired or stress out after work. I rather have it with me as a backup just to avoid some embarrass moment which I had it before with my current girl friend. I can't have a hard erection during sex, and it was during tax period, I was stress out with work. She was at her mid 20s and I can't disappoint her all the time.

The next generation condom

Haven't share anything here for a very long time, and this is a very special article that really motivates me to share here. It mention that this may be the next generation condom, visit the link below then you will know what I'm talking about. An electric condom, well are you brave enough to test it yourself? For me, ok, guess I will have to pass this. I will never put this into my penis until it had been in the market for few years. After all these people test it and without any side effect or even accident.

I really don't mind to try something new but putting an electric wire on my penis is not the one that I want to try. It's in testing stage now, it may be in the market by next few year and if you are brave enough to try it. There is a video in the link, there is a youtube video where you can see how they test it, they use their tongue and penis to try the condom, I guess it is quite safe. I'm really impress with these people, they are so creative in every way just to make our life better, I never thought that electric can help me in sex life.

My first response is like wtf, who is willing to risk their penis just for a little pleasure. But I think there are a lot of people willing to risk it just to have the orgasm. SM already prove you that. Yet, it's still in r&d session, so be patient. Actually I'm interested to get a batch to sell it, let the customer try it and let them enjoy the electric condom then only I see whether it's safe for own use.

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Pretty Emily Shaw Topless Lingerie Photoshhot

Do you know Emily Shaw? Well, I have no idea who is this until I saw her topless picture then only find out she have a lot of topless pictures. Many years ago I told my friends I don't even bother to 'read' Playboy or Penthouse, there are so many porns online, who the hell need all these magazine? It's true that the photo does look much sexier and beautiful than porn, but the porn video is the thing that is more 'needed'. Some of you may like Emily Shaw in photo only as it look much classier than porn, but I think a lot of us like her to be in porn. Gosh, you see how pretty that pair of boobs are? Search online for it, it's from Frank White.

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Do you fancy pretty girls like Emily Shaw to be your girl friend? There are a lot of troubles you may have as she is a bombshell, imagine you are going out with her and so many pair of eyes are looking at her. Many of the guys don't even have the time to look at the one beside her. You won't feel secure to have girl friend like this, unless you can get a girl friend like this anytime when she's gone. Well, I don't mean that you shouldn't have a hot girl as your girl friend, but you need to know her very well and make sure she is not those kind of troublemaker. You need to know that pretty girls are normally hard to get along as most of the people around her will tend to follow her move. You need to have a very strong heart, time or patient to handle this kind of girls.

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Guys need to man up, it's a strange world now, look for those faithful girls unless you are just flirting around. Love is something precious and don't expect it from cheap people. Why suddenly I change my topic to this unrelated thing? Just read some amazing article from Askmen, go and check it out, there are some articles that may help you to learn more about sex life, better sex. You know there is a clitoris awareness week? You may find it out here.

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Sex Addict

Read a sad story regarding a sex addict in Sexual Health. Before I read it, I thought it will be a wild and saucy sex story. After I read this, it appears to me that this is sad. Who thought that a story about sex addict is so bad, it should be like the lifestyle of a playboy, and I like happy endings. It should be a story about a guy who are unable to settle down and have a lot of girlfriends or sex partners, attending all kinds of sex parties, clubbing every night. It appears that the story here is different. The couple married and the wife started to cheat on the husband after 2 weeks by having a boyfriend. The affair lasted for 2 years and finally found out by the husband.

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According to the wife, this is a story told by the wife, a 36 year old women from Miami said that the husband is a good looking, funny and wonderful husband. The wife had an affair because she felt that the life of marriage, a husband that is so loyal made her feel lack of sexual interest. And she lost her sex drive towards her husband after married. And the best of it, she manage to keep both of them in the dark without knowing the existent of each other. She relates her sex addict to her childhood, it's like men's sexual fantasy of girls in school uniform. I don't really agree with this as our preference of school uniform doesn't hurt our partner unless we are doing it with others. And she enjoys having sex with her boyfriend while her husband is nearby, she feels that it's exciting.

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The wife knew that she have this sex addict and married her husband, and in her mind she did hope that things really work out. I think she should do the treatment before marriage not after. What I found surprise is that the husband still manage to be with her for another 2 and a half years after found out she was cheating on him. This husband is really not bad but met a wife with sex addict, this is not something that we can expect. You may check the story in Sexual Health.com

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Weight loss is related to sexual performance

There is one more reason here for you to loss weight. Other than looking more sexy and attractive, researchers found that the testosterone is more when compare with overweight people. Well, a lot of other research tells that the most sexy muscle is your abs, the six pack. Well, for me it's kind of a no brainer research that is for the sake of fill up their free time. I don't need a research to tell me that a guy with six pack is more sexy, who don't like a guy or girl with good figure?

Apart from what the stupid research which I kinda think it is, but I still share it with you. I will post the whole article here from Men Fitness. For me, a men who works out a lot sure having better stamina and they can perform better in sex compare to those who seldom work out. Make love use some of your body muscle, so if you have better muscles there are a lot of position that you can try. For me even if it's not about sexual performance, I will make myself look good all the time because I enjoy a better looking me than an awful me. Weight loss is more on diet than exercise, the roughly ration is 60% diet and 40% workout. And again even if you look slim it doesn't make you look good, I like a bit of muscle that can carry the shirt that I wear. Get yourself out from the chair and start to do some workout, it's not a short period thing, you have to make workout and diet your habit. Looking smart and fit always give you chances to get laid.

Ultimately sexual satisfaction still depend on what and how you do it with your partner, these weight loss that related to sexual performance in some way but it's not sex itself.


If you want to keep things moving in the bedroom, you should start by moving more at the gym or on the trail. Exercise, combined with healthier eating, may help overweight men avoid low testosterone through weight loss.

In a preliminary study presented by a meeting of endocrine professionals in Texas, researchers measured the effects of healthy lifestyle changes on the testosterone level of overweight, middle-aged men with prediabetes. In some men, low testosterone can result in reduced sex drive and poor erections, leading many to seek hormone replacement therapy to maintain their mojo.

Previous studies, however, have found that men with obesity or diabetes have a greater risk of low testosterone. This led researchers from Ireland to examine whether losing weight could reverse this decline in testosterone.

Researchers asked one group of men to make simple lifestyle changes. This included exercising 150 minutes a week, and eating less fat and fewer calories. Over the course of a year, these men lost an average of 17 pounds. Their shrinking weight and waist sizes were both linked to a 15 percent increase in their testosterone level. By the end of the study, only 11 percent of the men had low testosterone, down from 20 percent at the start.

The other men in the study, who received either a drug for type 2 diabetes or a placebo pill, didn’t see much improvement in their testosterone level after a year.

The study has not yet been published in a peer-reviewed journal, but losing weight has other well-documented benefits. The bottom line is that if you want to perform well in the bedroom and on the court, you need to eat healthy and exercise more.

My husband is out of town

Wonder you are here because of the title here or because you received a spam mail like this as well. This email catch my eye and if there is a chance I would like to ask her so? Not everyone like to fuck up other peoples' life. I know it's just a spam mail that probably doesn't mean anything, it may be a guy behind the computer. It maybe a sexual enhancement product that they want to sell their product. If you are looking forward to buy herbal sexual enhancement product, I suggest you to buy Activ-Homme instead.

Today should talk about Halloween but not about this kind of spam mail, but feel like want to share this when saw the spam mail in my mail box. I saw a lot of ugly and horrible faces outside and it makes the environment actually not terrifying but fun. I already felt that yesterday and still have the chance to go out tonight. It's still Halloween. So how you guys celebrate your Halloween? I think it's a great excuse to party again, there are so many occasion for you to create the chance to know some new friends. Well if you want to get a new girl friend or friends to hang out is to meet more people and get yourself some new friends. Then you can a lot of chances to expand your network. I was never good at flirting or to know someone out there, I'm not a good looking guy as well, so the only way for me to know more friends is party and other activities.

If you want to get laid then it's a good opportunity for you tonight, yes tonight, go out and meet more friends. Call your friend and don't be shy to join their party. Shy guy do have their chance as well you know, expand your network, get used to talk to girls then you will learn how to talk to them properly without mess things up.

15 minutes of orgasm

15 minutes of orgasm? It's for her, Sure you think that you have to be a sex god or at least a giant penis to make her orgasm for 15 minutes. You don't need a giant penis to make her orgasm. It is quite amazing, don't you think so? I don't any girl can resist you if you are able to make her orgasm for 15 minutes, she will be damn to miss you. I haven't try this thing before, I will try it someday and I think that if I can do this, the girl will beg to have sex with me all the time. You know what, this technique doesn't even need your penis to give her the big orgasm. Well, again I can't assure that it works as I haven't try it before. Read the details here, http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/fifteen-minute-orgasm-four-hour-body-book

As to the author who wrote this, Timothy Ferris, I read one of his book, a New York Times Bestseller, The 4 hour workweek. Frankly speaking, I'm quite disappoint the it. Not much details in the book that can help, but there are some ideas inside to inspire you in work. Lets hope that this new book here, The 4 hour Body can really helps you to become a Super human. It's on the cover that said An uncommon guide to rapid fat loss, incredible sex and becoming super human. Well, that is a very good title, it does bring the curiosity to buy this book to become super human and have super sex. If you are interesting in fat loss and kill some fat, there is a very good site that may help you as well. bodyrock.tv, try it out.

Tired in sex

My girl friend is asking me for sex in 2am. This is really a bad timing. Actually I read this in an article as well. For me, I'm kinda exhausted and sleepy during midnight, why can't she do this in the morning. I may get it hard with RX like Viagra, Cialis or Levitra. But I won't be able to perform well and enjoy the sex at the same time. Timing is really important, not only in sex but everything. And in sex, timing is crucial. I hope to make love to her as well, but why she have to ask for sex at this time?

The article I mention just now, sexual intelligence. It states that many people have sex when they are tired. Normally people will do something that is important during prime time, like spending time with their kids, movies, hang out, work, exercise and so on. They leave sex for last, save the best for last doesn't work well for sex. When you are having sex after all your 'important things', you are normally exhausted. There are no more extra energy to make sex more exciting and satisfying.

This will lead sex life to a boring and routine status. When you are tired, you will have no time and energy to make sex fun, of course you won't be able to have fun as you are too tired. The next time when you hope to have sex and you won't expect much, your experience will tell you that it is just another sex that is so boring. Make a difference by just have this much earlier even in the morning, then the sex will be more satisfying and exciting. There are a lot more in the article other than morning sex, share it the next time.

Dating an older woman

Have you date an older woman before? What is the feeling of it? I have a relationship with an older woman, but it's just one year difference. This is not something special, it's a normal case. I had a gathering with my friend yesterday, one of them is dating a lady who is 6 years older. This is started to get interesting. Well the best model we can get now is Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore, it's 17 years different!

For me, if I'm the guy, I would be certainly glad to flirt with them or just some sex. For a lady like Demi Moore, she is pretty and sexy even at this age. I really don't mind to have fun and experience the sex with older lady. They should be more sophisticated and the sex is more fun, they know more about sex compare to those younger lady. I always fantasize to have sex with those hot and mature woman. I don't have this luck yet.

what do you expect the guy will do? Ashton is handsome and he may be strong in his career and financial, sure a lot of girls are willing to have sex with him even it's for free. I don't understand why Demi Moore is sad about it, she should expect something like this to happen when she started this relationship. If Demi just want a short relationship with this Ashton and enjoying some exciting sex, then it make sense. I just don't get it.

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Have you ever experience that you are too tired to have sex and no matter how hard you try or your partner stimulate you, but your penis is just not able to get hard? I have that kind of experience just last week. My girl friend was very hungry for sex and she try to seduce me and give me hand job and blow job as well, but I'm just too tired for it. I hope to get some sleep by the time she ask me for sex.

She kinda figure out that I'm not able to have sex with her and ask me to take this pill Activ-Homme. She told me it's from her friend that is for sexual enhance, a product that her friend is using and give her few to try it out. I just give it a try since I do not want to disappointed her. She took one herself as well, her girl friend is using this for sexual enhancement. We watch some drama together for about an hour then she starts to get horny again. We did some foreplay and get into business right away. Something surprise me is that this really enhance my penis, it may not be some super power pill but it does made my penis hard. I can get this hard when I'm in very good shape, but I'm in a very tired situation that night. The sex pill give me a very hard penis and to my surprise, my girl friend vagina is very tight that night. She is tight most of the time, but that day she was tighter and more responsive.

We enjoy our sex that night, and I think you guys may have this with you for 'emergency' use. Of course it's even better if you guys can take a rest and make love in the morning, a quickie. But you may encounter a case like mine, that our girl friend or wife is longing for a nice sex.

Female friend that you want to have sex with

Do you ever have a female friend that is a good friend of you and you would like to have sex with her? Most of you out there sure have a girl friend that you chat about everything, you never have sex with her before but she is so attractive that you would be happy that if you ever have a chance to make love to her. I have few female friends that I would love to have sex with and they are very attractive, I seldom meet them so I don't really think about it.

Few days ago I have dinner with a friend that who don't look so attractive back then and she make me feel like want to flirt with her. She is very sexy that night, makes me wonder she did it on purpose. The curvy body of her makes me so horny. Well nothing happened that night but it makes me feel refreshing to have such a feeling. Maybe this is the effect of the alcohol we took after dinner. In a relationship lately makes me feel like not so energetic like last time. I need something to boost my mind to make me more aggressive in work again. And when this girl friend call up, this give me a feeling that I don't have last time. It feels refresh and the pretty girls walking around the bar makes me horny. I feel like I'm an animal that is hunting for a pussy.

Hanging out with an attractive lady is really exciting, and I enjoy those jealous guys who look at me. I think it's good for me to keep some social life like that and I will be more aggressive in work as well. The animal instinct in me that re charge my battery to run again, the sexual instinct does boost my energy.

Oral sex

My girlfriend likes to do this oral sex to me, I like it a lot. Some of you can see it in porn that call it a blow job. I'm not sure there is any guys out there that don't enjoy oral sex. As for me, I totally enjoy the stimulation without moving at all. She have really good oral sex technique that makes her look like a pro in those porn movie. Sometimes I sit on a chair or lie on the bed, but the best position for blow job is stand, for me.

Well, in return I give her oral sex as well. It's not only for return a favour but girls do like oral sex a lot, and sometimes they feel that it's better than the real sex when you penetrate inside her. That's why you can see those lesbian can satisfy themselves without a real penis. I read an article that mentions that if your eyelids are not sticky after you give her an oral sex that means you are not doing your best to please her. I can imagine those porn movie that the guy is like dive into her vagina and give her the lick. The article even suggest that we should shake our face side by side that may give a very good friction to her vagina. Actually it will get kinda messy as my girlfriend is very wet down there. I haven't get myself that wet before, I may try it someday. Maybe I can save some money for facial since I will have a natural facial here.

Penis that is too big?

Penis that is too large. I have no idea what size should a penis be but a size that can make the women happy and won't suffer should be the main point right? Actually I do wonder whether is there a penis that is too large that will make a man run or even walk more difficult than other? These are very interesting topic for discussion, I asked this because I do not have such a big dick in my pants.

Big penis is not always an advantage, do you have any idea why? I do not understand until I read a post that a girl wrote, it's actually kinda funny. The girl mention that she is trying to give blow job to a guy and the first time she have problem putting the penis into her mouth. The penis is just too large. The girl call this penis an anaconda. The penis is very big that it make her vagina bleed, this is not because they have a rough sex but because of the size. This make her worry so much, ultimately she call her doctor and ask for his advise. Doctor suggest her to stop having sex for 2 weeks, but guess what's her reply? This is not an option. Haha, good answer. So she continue to have sex and the bleeding continue.

This is not the worst part of the big penis story. The guy ask for anal sex. lol. She is open for anal sex, but for anaconda that big? She is in deep pain and ask the guy to stop. Seems like large penis is not good for anal sex, this is the first time I felt relieve that my penis is in average size. I didn't have experience in anal sex but hope to experience it some day, I just think I'm not prepare for it. Come back to our story right here, the girl have some problem as well when they try oral sex. And she mentioned that her experience with big penis isn't the worst, her girlfriend have experience that a penis that is too large that she is in pain when only half of the penis is inside her. It's like going to buffet and not able to eat.

How to have sex with big penis comfortably? Lubes, lot of lubricants. No Anal sex and doggy style. That means you may use doggy style if you have a relatively small penis as this style will penetrate deeper. A classic missionary or sideway is good if you have a big penis or when you encounter one. Girl on top is also one of the best choice.

How to make her her orgasm

Read a post on internet, this guy felt so lucky to have a pretty girl friend but he was unable to make her come. Her girl friend have difficulties to orgasm, and so he send an email to ask a sex shrink about it. The question from the sex shrink, which part of her body you should stimulate to make her climax? Neck? Breast? Nipple? Clitoris? The answer that the shrink suggest is her mind. She may enjoy the sex with you, and she likes it a lot, but the thing is she may not be comfortable with it especially she is shy of her body.

What can you do make her feel comfortable? Make her relax, safe, softly and slowly. She suggest him to lie down beside her and do the foreplay to relax her. While she is asking for more then only go down to her and rub her clitoris. After this then only penetrate, the penetration will take her to climax if everything is going well. When she is near to climax, she may need a catalyst to take her to climax. The sex shrink suggest that you may for instance try to grab her ass as there are a lot of nerves that may make her climax.

I have sex a lot, and often but I only know it's so complicated right until now. Or maybe I should say there are so many procedures for sex. And this may not be my girl friend's preference, so much to learn, luckily we have internet online to learn all these stuff.

Lucky me

I have always been saying that I'm lucky to have a girlfriend whom know how to make sex interesting. She knows clearly what she wants and guide me to it. I think most of the ladies now is not shy to ask for more in sex, it's a good thing that a couple is able to sit down and talk about it. I always think that communication is very important in a sexual relationship, and it will affect your relationship in a way. I read articles that mention that a couple that have a satisfied sexual relationship can last longer and tend to be more strong in relationship.

If you do not know about what your girl friend or boy friend want, you may ask them about it. Not only that you should know about your partner's need but yourself as well. Are you kidding me that I do not know about my sexual needs? Yes, it's true and nothing funny about it, because some of the people out there really don't know how to pleasure themselves, especially girls, they don't even know the feeling of orgasm. Studies shows that only one third of the women out there haven't have their orgasm before even they have a bunch of children. So girls, don't be shy, it's not something bad that you want to be satisfied in sex.

When you are alone with yourself, try to pleasure yourself with your own hands or dildo, play with yourself and find out how can you orgasm. Yes, I'm asking you to try to masturbate, it's not a bad thing if you can find out how to be satisfied in sex. If you don't even know about it, how can you tell your partner what you want. Not every men a sex machine that is able to satisfy you. Studies also shows that women tend to orgasm more by using hand and mouth, they enjoy it more than the penetration itself. So it's not a bad thing to play with yourself and help your partner to learn more about you as well.

Reading hot sex tips online

It may sound strange for a guy to read sex tips in Cosmopolitan, but it does give me a lot of sex tips that I never think of. And also it gives me some of the thought of female partners, so I can know what they are thinking and kinda connect to what they think about sex. For instance, my girlfriend said she felt so damn hot when I play with her clitoris and her ex never do that to her. Of course I have to be humble at the same time so that I can keep on learn more about them, and at the same time she may tell me this just because she want to makes me feel good. From the sex tips online, some even said that the manual stimulate with clitoris feel better than sex itself, you can see how important it is the foreplay for girls.

I came across another article this time in Cosmopolitan, actually it's a whole subject rather than just a single article, it's about sex challenge. The one that I read just now is about to use a toy in sex, guys always felt threaten with sex toys as the toy is always available and they can work 24/7 as long as you have the battery. I don't like to use dildo on her as well, frankly speaking who like to use that fake penis instead of our own. I would like to enjoy sex with her as well. They use a cock ring as a sex chanllege, it's a funny article that you should take a look. It mention that how her boy friend stress out using the cock ring and also worry about his own performance while using it. They failed the first time, her boy friend's is not able rock hard, as we have mention before stress can kill your mood and not able to perform well.

The second time she caught him unprepared, licking him all over his body before gave him an oral sex. She gave him the cock ring while he is hard as rock and this time they made it but the author don't like the feel of the vibrator so they stop using it. The main point here is they tried it, at least try it out before you think it's not suitable. Your girlfriend may like it, but she still need you as a whole package instead of the vibrator, nothing is good as your kiss right? (you must think that I want to say your penis huh) I will read the whole sex challenge thing, and let me start with this cock ring first.