A Basic Guide to Oral Sex

Oral sex was once considered to be a taboo but today this type of sex is practiced among people around the globe. Our attitude toward oral sex can tell a lot about our attitude on sex in general. A person that likes to get and give oral sex is usually caring, sensual and spontaneous in the bed. On the other hand, a person who feels tension and discomfort even when someone mentions oral sex is reserved when it comes to sex in general.

What should women know about oral sex?

There are many women who find oral sex unpleasant and complicated but the truth is that oral sex is really easy to perform. There are many tips and advice that can help women provide oral sex that will make their partners satisfied and make this experience less unpleasant for them.

The first rule is to maintain good lubrication. The more saliva the more your partner will enjoy. Try to hold some saliva in your mouth before you place the penis in your mouth. Finding a good position is another important moment. You have probably noticed that you can experience more pleasure in certain sex positions when your partner is providing sexual pleasure well the same goes when you are doing that to him. You can lie down on the bed or kneel over him but feel free to explore some new positions too. The key to perfect oral sex is to have both hands available because in this way you can control the depth of penetration. You can also try the well known position – kneeling in front of him. Some women find this position degrading but there is nothing wrong with providing pleasure to your partner.

In order to have a good start with the act you should begin with the top of the penis because this is the part that is most sensitive. Don’t forget to use the hands because they can maximize the effects.

What should men know about oral sex?

Many men believe that there is no need to learn something about oral sex because it looks easy. This is simply not true. Female physiology is much different from male physiology and you should know few things before you start with this act. Many men for example, rush in the genital area but what women actually need is a short foreplay in a form of kissing and touching the area around the vagina in order to increase the excitement. Although there is usually one position to perform oral sex you can always try something new because many women find oral sex more exciting when they are on their stomach. If you are not sure if you are doing this in the right way you can always ask your partner. Of course, the best time to do that is after the sex act.

There is no doubt that oral sex can improve your sex life because this type of sex usually continues with what we call “classic” sexual intercourse.

C'mon Let Me Ride

You heard this song before by Skylar Grey? It's a very sexy and juicy song, it's so damn hot when you listen to this song. Imagine when you heard this song during your work, your mood is ready for sex anytime. I think you can share this song with your partner and tell her some of the lyrics. For example, let me ride your bicycle is like having sex in the position she is on top. Tell her what you have in mind and how you imagine it, so when she heard this song, the picture will appear in her mind and it may turn her on. By the time she meet you at home, she is ready for sex anytime. Skylar Grey said this song is more on sarcastic, the entertainment industry's mtv is full of jewelry, car, money and some of the singer actually expose more of their body to get attention and more sales of their songs.

I have no idea about it but one thing for sure when she sings about sucking all the poison all I can imagine sucking penis. There is another song make you think of blow job as well, flo-rida's Whistle. Can you blow my whistle baby, I'm gonna show you how to do it and we start real slow. I think Skylar wanna talk about Flo-rida as well as he drove a Bentley in the mtv, right? Sometimes nice car, sexy lady in the video really help to get some attention, and I like pretty stuffs, of course pretty ladies as well, who don't? Am I too horny? I'm a horny guy, this I admit. How many of you guys admit that?

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Oral sex

My girlfriend likes to do this oral sex to me, I like it a lot. Some of you can see it in porn that call it a blow job. I'm not sure there is any guys out there that don't enjoy oral sex. As for me, I totally enjoy the stimulation without moving at all. She have really good oral sex technique that makes her look like a pro in those porn movie. Sometimes I sit on a chair or lie on the bed, but the best position for blow job is stand, for me.

Well, in return I give her oral sex as well. It's not only for return a favour but girls do like oral sex a lot, and sometimes they feel that it's better than the real sex when you penetrate inside her. That's why you can see those lesbian can satisfy themselves without a real penis. I read an article that mentions that if your eyelids are not sticky after you give her an oral sex that means you are not doing your best to please her. I can imagine those porn movie that the guy is like dive into her vagina and give her the lick. The article even suggest that we should shake our face side by side that may give a very good friction to her vagina. Actually it will get kinda messy as my girlfriend is very wet down there. I haven't get myself that wet before, I may try it someday. Maybe I can save some money for facial since I will have a natural facial here.

Bad sex

Read this from Askmen, there are some useful tips that if your partner is not so good in sex. The first tip they suggest is to fake an illness so that you can avoid having sex and not to piss her off. This is kinda fun is it, and it is better than telling her directly she is not good in sex. People don't like to be told that they are not good, so if you want her or him to do something, you may start to give compliment of something they are good at. Say for instance, if she is good in giving oral sex, give her the compliment and tell her that it will feel better if she can do another thing that you like.

Another way of doing it, which is suggest in the article is asking what she likes on bed. This will make her feel special when you discuss this with her, and give you an excuse or chance to tell her what you like. This makes her more willingly to do exactly what you want, isn't that nice? You will like this guy, watch porn in front of her. Why? So you can let her know that the girl in porn do something that makes you hard, she may learn the same thing to make your penis hard as well. Now you just create the chance to make her watch porn with you and learn from it.

Do you like pole dance? Personally I have no special interest but I am interest to watch pretty girls wearing so sexy to dance on the pole. And the best thing when she is doing this pole dance, she can burn the calories and stay fit. I think pole dance is cheaper and more effective that those slimming treatment in those beauty centre, right? It will be a good investment when you see her dancing in front of you. There is another way of telling her that she is fat, purposely buy shirt that she can't fit then she will feel that she's fat. If she receive your message, she will take care her body and you won't piss her off.

The foreplay

Many guys tend to make the whole sex process longer by making the penetration time longer but forget the fact that girls may not enjoy the process or maybe don't feel comfortable at all. If your partner doesn't enjoy the sex, then what's the point of prolong the time?

As I have mention in my previous post, some of the girls like oral sex or hand job more than the penetration itself. If they like it, why don't you spend some time doing it before the penetration, that is foreplay.

Do you know that foreplay is crucial for women if you want to turn them on? They may make love with you but they may not enjoy it much, they may even fake the orgasm. Men and women are very different in sex, women will need a longer time to prepare before go into business. And since men like to make the sex time longer, why don't you spend some time doing the foreplay for them. And it's a very good way to satisfy the women if their partner have premature ejaculations.

Most of the men can't last longer than 5 minutes in penetration, studies shown, not my own statistic. If you spend some time kissing, from head to toe, pick the sensitive area, play around, spend more time to explore her body, find her g spot other than her vagina. Clitoris is a very organ for you to give her the oral sex, clitoris is a very sensitive area that have a lot of nerve like your penis. You may give her the orgasm by just licking it without penetrate, it's more like the way she give you the blow job. We can talk about the way to stimulating her clitoris in the future post.

When you have give her sufficient stimulation to turn her on, your penetration will make her come very fast. You may be able to make her come before you do, then she will have her orgasm as well. Hope this is a solution for you to have better sex.

I love porn

Yes I want to said it out loud. I just love porn. It's one of the greatest invention of all time, we have to thank to the technology of video and internet, and you can watch over thousands of porn online for FREE. How many of us actually have the chance to have sex with a pretty lady with the nice breast and ass? And now you can have sex with any kind of girls, petite, big breast, brunette, asian, blond, more amazing, you get to choose the lingerie, costume and location. You can even choose for normal sex, hardcore sex, oral sex or even anal sex. And with porn, you don't need to worry about cold and lonely nights. Do you know that there is a porn version of Pirates of the Caribbean, I don't remember the name, but it's a porn version. Isn't that fantastic, it's not just fantasy, it's kinda real compare to your imagination, someone have just realised it. And you don't need to look for a girl to have sex, just a few clicks and you can have sex with the most beautiful girl in the world.
I think not everyone is comfortable to disclose their sex life, and porn is also a kind of sex education, although some of the porn maybe misleading. No matter what, porn is still a good thing for us, you can't ignore it as most of the usage in internet is porn, it's the top search in every site, it had use up most of the bandwidth in internet. How you get here? What word did you search just now? I think 90% of you search something that is related to sex, porn, anal sex, oral sex or big breast, lingerie? Whatever, Enjoy your porn.